Summer Holidays: parent’s guide to surviving and thriving

Ah, summer. That magical time of year when school gates close, and parents everywhere wonder, “Wait, wasn’t it just Christmas?” Six weeks of joy—or six weeks of pulling your hair out? The choice is yours.

But fear not, fellow working parents. At AMBER, we get it. We’re all juggling jobs, kids, and the ever-present guilt of not being able to clone ourselves. So, here’s your survival guide to the summer holidays 2025.

The Working Parent’s Survival Kit

1. The Grandparent Gambit

When in doubt, pawn them off. Grandparents, aunts, uncles—they all signed up for this, right? If they protest, just say, “But they really want to visit!” Bonus points if you include a guilt trip. Seriously though, family care is hugely valuable and beneficial to our children as they will always provide a different type of nurturing. It is a fantastic way of allowing your children to bond with family and build those all important relationships independent of their parents. So it’s win win!

2. Summer Clubs

From football, tennis to dance, summer clubs are your ticket to a few hours of peace. It is also worth checking what free grass root clubs are available in your area. For example free tennis sessions are available nationally here. While many of us may feel a twinge of guilt when signing our kids up, these clubs often offer great opportunities for social development, helping children step outside the comfort zone of their usual school friendships and make new connections.

3. Work-From-Home Wonders

If your child is old enough to not set the house on fire, assign them tasks. Colouring, painting, organising their toys—anything to keep them occupied while you work. Just remember, the Wi-Fi password is sacred.

4. Teenagers: The Money-Making Machines

Teens need money, and you need help. It’s a match made in heaven. Offer them pocket money in exchange for chores. They’ll grumble, but it will be a great introduction to earning.

Budget friendly activities

1. Lidos and Pools

Who needs expensive water parks when you have local lidos? Hitchin Lido boasts a 50m pool, and Ware Priory Lido has been modernised for your enjoyment. Plus, fewer crowds mean less stress. Click here for more information.

2. Geocaching: The Modern-Day Treasure Hunt

Download the app, and let the adventure begin. It’s free, it’s fun, and it gets you out of the house. Plus, your kids will think you’re cool for knowing about it. Click here for more information.

3. Free Local Events

Check your local council’s website for free or low-cost events. Outdoor cinemas, library programs, community festivals—these are your ticket to affordable entertainment. (See below)

Where can we go

Eventbrite

4. National Museums and Attractions

British Museum in London

Many national museums, such as the Natural History Museum and the Science Museum in London, offer free entry. While some may suggest a donation, the cost to enter is typically free, making them an excellent option for educational outings.

London

Manchester

Liverpool

Birmingham

Tips for maintaining work-life balance

  • Plan Ahead: Organise childcare and activities early to avoid last-minute stress.

  • Set Boundaries: Establish clear work hours and communicate them to your employer and family.

  • Prioritise Self-Care: Allocate time for personal relaxation and activities to recharge.

  • Utilise Technology: Use apps and online resources to find local events, book tickets, and manage schedules efficiently. These can include:

    • Local Event Websites : Check websites like Eventbrite, Meetup, and local tourism boards that list events, concerts, and activities.

    • Social Media : Follow local organisations, venues, and influencers on platforms like Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter.

    • Community Boards in your local town hall, community centre and library.

    • Local Newspapers and Magazines

For the stay-at-home parent: the world is your oyser

If you’re not working this summer, the possibilities are endless. Theme parks, festivals, nature adventures—your calendar is your canvas. Just remember, even stay-at-home parents need a break. So, plan wisely and enjoy the ride. (Read the useful links below.)

Final Thoughts

Remember, summer doesn’t have to be perfect. It just has to be memorable. Whether you’re working, staying at home, or somewhere in between, embrace the chaos, laugh at the mishaps, and cherish the moments. After all, it’s only six weeks.

Disclaimer: No children were harmed in the making of this guide. But a few parents might have had their sanity tested.

Useful Links:

Lidos and pools

Find out about HAF clubs in your local area (Holiday activities and food programme)

premier-education.com

moneytothemasses.com

National Trust

Lake District National Park

Money Saving tips


Apps and Games:

Geocaching- apps available for Apple and Android
Go Noodle- apps available for Apple and Android

Purple Mash- apps available for Apple and Android
Khan Academy

Duolingo - apps available for Apple and Android

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